My clock blinked 7am and I realize it was going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. The early morning events didn’t influence me directly, but whenever Jon’s luck turns for the worst, I’m in the passenger seat.
Jon works two days a week in Wisconsin, and when these days role around, he wakes up long before the crack of dawn to drive 2 hours to his ‘country’ office (Mondovi, Wisconsin – town of 2,000). Yesterday, just after waking, he couldn’t find his car, assumed it was towed, and took mine for the long drive to work. He phoned the impound during the drive, and he quickly learned that they didn’t have his car.
He turns around and comes home to file a ‘stolen car report.’ It’s now 6:50am. Luckily, I’m taking Kinzie on her morning walk, and I notice Jon’s Jeep parked on the street. Odd, right? I call and ask what’s wrong with his car (why else would he take mine?) Can you imagine the relief in his voice? Problem solved, he realizes he parked 2 streets away from where he thought he parked, and there really isn’t a crisis at all. Phew.
My sweet husband made it to work on time, and I felt so awful about his hectic morning, that I designed that ‘Goodness, I love you more than” graphic at the top of this page. Whenever he’s frustrated or tired or upset, I try and do little things to boost his mood. Did you know a 30 percent increase in one spouse’s happiness will boost the other spouse’s happiness? It works the other way too, so if one spouse has a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day, then their partner will catch the mood.
I had some important stuff to tell you in this post, and I’ve left it all for the bottom. Oops. Thing is, I taught Jon to play checkers last weekend, and it was even more fun than when I played at summer camp in 1995. I hadn’t played in nearly 15 years, and so I taught him the wrong way, and we only figured it out when none of our players could move. We ended up reading all the rules together, and then playing 4 rounds to declare a true tie.
We got ice cream after the game, and Jon commented that our checker strategies are the opposite of our real-life strategies: in the game, I think slowly and rationalize every move, while Jon moves quickly, crosses his fingers, and hopes for the best. In this real world of ours? I’m quick to jump and Jon likes a 15359-point plan before making a move.
PS – Is post-script allowed in blogs? I hope so! Anyway, we finally wrote our initials in something — I’ve been waiting for the right moment, and when I saw the Jenga set with names scrawled across the tops and sides, I knew the moment had come. See the JP+JP up there? That’s us 🙂 Do me a favor and don’t tell the owner?