A few weeks ago, a friend said that our actions between 5pm and 10pm reveal our priorities. She rationalized that most people spend 9 to 5 working for a paycheck, but that we make our own schedules after we clock-out. When I got home, I mapped out my weekly activities to see if there was a correlation between my priorities and my weekly agenda.
My findings? I devoted the majority of my week to The Big Three (faith, family, friends) and also spent significant time pursuing creative passions (writing, photography, design), community projects (volunteering), and physical goals (yoga and running). That’s all fine, of course, but it seemed like something was missing. Can you guess what it was?
No – it’s not the pillows. I’ve been wanting to make the pillows for a while, and today I had the time (and the fabric) to sew some beauties for the couch. The missing element, however, was a growth experience. I’ve pursued the same passions for years and years, and I felt something was needed to inspire change and expand thinking.
My conclusion? Volunteer with a new organization (I now tutor every Wednesday afternoon), work on a skill (I’m taking a writing class at The Loft), and meet new people (I joined a women’s group at church). I’m two weeks into the tutoring program, and I’m positive my student has taught me more about life than I’ve imparted about reading and writing . And as for the church group? Instant respect and admiration for the women I’ve met. The writing class begins in two weeks, so I’ll keep you updated on that front.
The activities align with my original ‘priority categories,’ yet also inspire new ways of thinking about the things that matter most. Part of me wants to try something more radical – run a marathon or take a business class – but the little changes will work for now.
How do you prioritize your time? Do you look for growth-opportunities?
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